An apology is due to the readers of Celebration of Youth for not having published last week’s edition. It was long overdue, but I travelled to the USA to visit my mother and just returned this week. It had been almost two years since my mother and I had seen each other. Needless to say, it was a sweet homecoming.

For three years, many pleas have gone to my mother for her to visit Anguilla. Yet, her fear of flying has kept her at bay. Now however, she has seized the opportunity to visit as she could travel with me, and I am happy to report that she has arrived in Anguilla safe and sound and is eager to see the beauty of this island. Of course, when one is reunited with his or her mother after a long while, it is always an opportunity to recall one’s youth. Moms and dads always remind their sons and daughters of things one did as a child. It is an undeniable chance for reflection and introspection and usually is an important activity for one to be able to continue the process of realizing an identity.
It is tempting to write about what I have realized during the trip, but it would indubitably bore my readers. However, it does bring up an interesting point: life is a process of everlasting change and adaptation. We all strive, especially as young people, to achieve a sense of security both mentally and financially. Yet, as one continues to mature, life seems to throw a number of “curve balls.” Because of this, young people not only need to think about a secure future, but also develop an ability to cope with mental stress and issues in life that hold one back from achieving his or her dreams. When we are young, the common thought is that we are indestructible and we have time to do anything and everything. Yet, as we get older, we start to regret the fact that we had poor planning. Moreover, besides the common feeling of indestructibility, unfortunately most young people think they have everything figured out. There is one thing I have learned from a very young age: one’s elders have been there and done that and are extremely willing to provide sound advice so that you or I do not make the same mistakes.
The Old Testament teaches us to honour thy mother and father. This is precisely the message being preached this week. Look towards your mother, father, grandma, grandpa or guardian for sound advice. Also, let them help in assisting you to achieve your own identity so that you can be secure in yourself, which will in turn help you become secure in this ever changing and ambiguous world. One’s elders are the best examples of good and bad practices and young people (including myself) must stop being stubborn and seek their support and counsel. Learning the hard way is sometimes the best, but it is tough and if it can be avoided. Seize the opportunity. Honour thy mother and father and it will bring honour to you.

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